Now this part is very special to me, its the fruit of your labour. A high vibrational match, a wholesome experience to live for, to anticipate Allah’s Mercy after healing emotional sepsis. Click here Part 1& Part 2 after healing toxic, karmic relationships. Soulmate connections feel familiar, comforting, reliable, bringing in peace and growth. Facing challenges is the part and parcel of this life as we will be tested every now and then. Trials and tribulations are the opportunity for growth, gaining wisdom, discovering self, recognizing the patterns and achieving the ultimate success. By success I mean returning to Allah with refreshed, deeper faith and profound gratitude – TASHAKUR a word I channeled in meditation.

Soul connections can be categorised into following types:

Romantic / Intimate Soul Connections

Every moment feels extremely safe

• mutual respect
• no push & pull dynamics
• no doubts
• no fears
• great trust
• emotionally mature, well balanced
• healthy attachment style
• open communication

Platonic / Friendly Soul Connections

• deep friendships
• no threat to loyalty
• supports growth without envy
• compassionate
• healthy boundaries

Family / Relatives Soul Connections

• family members like parents, siblings, child, uncle or aunts
• breaking generational patterns
• taking responsility
• being accountable
• emotionally resiliant
• forgiving

Teachers / Mentor Soul Connections

• gives you a new perspective over life
• shaping your beliefs
• helping with understanding phases of spiritual awakening
• emotional peace over chaos
• transformative

What do they teach us?

They teach us self-worth, healthy attachments styles, self-respect with effective boundaries. Nurtures our soul, “THE LOVE POTION”.

Your people are out there somewhere, its just the matter of being in the right frequency to attract them. Just do the inner work, our soul has power over the conditioning society has imposed over us. Once you recognize it through Self- Awareness you pave your own way from darkness to light, sadness to happiness, incompleteness to wholesomeness.

How Can you attract a soulmate?

A million dollar question 😉. I am sharing the deeper truth that has to come to the surface. Understand this equation:

Broken Aura = Broken Partner

Strong Aura = Strong Partner

Mentioned under are the practical steps to attract soul connections that are truthful, honest, aligned with your higher self.

1. Self-Reflection:

• being aware of your needs and wants
• being flexible without compromising
• believing that you deserve the best
• faith, your true match exists
• trust, your people are out there and its just the matter of time to meet them “Divine Timing”.

2. Shadow Work:

• Say Hello to your shadow
• meet them, greet them and talk to the shadow with kindness
• the conditioning from self, society and generational patterns need to be adressed
• don’t sabotage the patterns but break the sabotage cycle

3. Inner Work:

• the process of purification starts from here
• being aware of the problems will force you to search for solutions.
• Key to success is being patient and kind to self
• sincere self-forgiveness
• forgiving those who did you wrong, person, situations, events etc
• surrendering the outcome by giving your best in a situation
• having a faith in Allah’s Mercy, overthinking never helps but worsens
• stay active and fit, put in the work for serotonin
• eat healthy, small binges here and there are part of life
• educate yourself

4. Practicing Gratitude:

• you always have something positive to be grateful for
• be grateful for the negative experiences too
• painful experiences become a turning point acting as a catalyst for alignment with the higher self
• increases your vibrational state, strengthens, upgrades your aura

4. Zikr Allah – Meditation:

• sit in privacy, quite calm place for 10 mins to start with and increase gradually to your convenience.
• Sit or lay down in a comfortable posture, close your eyes
• Start with Bismillah, Surah Fatiha and chose an ALLAH’s name that best matches your current life situation, no count
  needed.
• Just focus on the vibration of the azkar
• 99 names, attributes to ALLAH The Most Gracious, The Most Powerful
• Salawat/ Durood Sharif, salutation to Prophet MUHAMMAD pbuh. Sending peace, blessings upon him circles back to you in various forms of barakah and peace- A Mirror Phenomenon.
• I strongly recommend using real crystals in the form of tasbeeh or palm stone.
• Rose Quartz is the stone to enable higher vibrations for Divine Love

5. Journey To Enlightenment:

• a summary to the events mentioned above I am briefly summing up as this will enlighten you as a whole- “mind body & soul”
• Self- awareness reflects the light on the shadows of self
• after recognizing the shadow, now is the time for doing the inner work
• the intention is to become the best version of self
• making best choices in this world and hereafter
• being armed to cut through all the odds and darkness
• you will be able to find your life purpose with immense peace and harmony

Bottom Line:

I will start with a Quranic verse :

“And among His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy“

So its part of the learning process to make bad choices, suffer in despair, learn the lessons and eventually develop fortitude to flip the script. As I always say it all starts from within, the intention that brings in the courage to work on self. Letting go of past traumas, connections and breathing in fresh energies without resisting the change. Just surrendering to the Divine decree and do your best